another kind of unfriendly people

Except that kind of people who really want a relationship are unfriendly.
I notice new mothers are unfriendly as well.Honestly ,I dislike them ,especially those breast-feeding mothers.
I can't explain why I dislike them until I know some Oxytocin researches.I just felt they are hostile ,very defensive and exclusive.


But the Oxytocin human ethnocentrism explain everything .Because I hate babies ,I avoid babies in real life.Even if  I ignore them ,they would "know" it because I didn't say "Your baby is so cute !".



I found they dislike the group of people who don't want babies and they have hostility towards them.

One of the negatives to Oxytocin is how it reinforces the "us vs. them" mentality, with people who they aren't bonded to by it being treated as an out-group.

Some people also happen to be egocentric, and have a "holier than thou" attitude, whether it's for having a baby, or not having children. I've seen that elitism go both ways, but elitist parents have society and it's norms that value parenthood backing them up.

Admin wrote:One of the negatives to Oxytocin is how it reinforces the "us vs. them" mentality, with people who they aren't bonded to by it being treated as an out-group.

Some people also happen to be egocentric, and have a "holier than thou" attitude, whether it's for having a baby, or not having children. I've seen that elitism go both ways, but elitist parents have society and it's norms that value parenthood backing them up.

But they are Oxytocin added.
The hideous nature of love.

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Necroposting, but "oh, well" as they say. I agree with Admin, it's more of societal factor than biochemistry, in my opinion.