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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by x Skull Child x on Fri Nov 20, 2015 12:39 am

I just read this article

http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/04/asexual-aromantic-happy/
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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by error on Sat Nov 21, 2015 11:58 pm

@Admin wrote:
I can't know what that's like first-hand either; what I've described all comes from second-hand accounts, but many of them mentioned not wanting to act on their libido at all, and never look at porn, and would rather get rid of their libido than act on it in any way. It can still be a bother.

Here's a thread related to that issue: http://iamfortress.forumotion.com/t78-non-hormonal-methods-of-lowering-libido

I've heard some say that keeping preoccupied with other things is a good option though. I've heard for some people at least, that continuing to abstain may eventually lower libido, but it'd be good to find things that are verified to lower it much more quickly.
Since it can be cyclic then masturbation is out of the picture. And the more they think about it the worse it gets. Even abstaining wouldn't be enough, they'd have to actually train their mind and place no importance on it. Quicker solutions may be more harmful, just like depression pills are compared to self-help.

☆x Pure Life x☆ wrote:I just read this article

http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/04/asexual-aromantic-happy/
Best part of the article:

"The truth is that the absolute largest impediment to my happiness over the years has been other people’s obsession with changing me."

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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by x Skull Child x on Sun Nov 22, 2015 4:08 pm

Having sex with donkeys is something which is very normal in some part of Colombia. A woman explaining in the video to the man who went to Colombia to see if it's true that they have sex with donkeys.

He asked her: "So what's keeping that from happening here?" (america)

and she answered: There comes a certain age of 12, 13, 14, and if they hadn't had a sexual experience, they hadn't had sex, then they're not a man. I mean, they just can't go around saying that they are virgin"

(I removed the link, It's too disgusting!)

I was suprised by the mans question actually.. This happens in many countries, that people have sex with their pets!

These poor donkeys are being raped by human teenagers wtf?!


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Post by SCH0206 on Sun Nov 22, 2015 4:14 pm

"I was suprised by the mans question actually.. This happens in all many countries, that people have sex with their pets!"

True. Sickos live all over the world.

"and she answered: There comes a certain age of 12, 13, 14, and if they hadn't had a sexual experience, they hadn't had sex, then they're not a man. I mean, they just can't go around saying that they are virgin ""

Why is someone's virginity (or lack of) anyone's business in the first place? It's funny how some pro-sexual people say sex is a private matter, then want to make it their business. They need more to do.

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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by Admin on Sun Nov 22, 2015 5:03 pm

It's awful that there's so much pressure to have sex by a certain age, no matter who or what gets hurt in the process. Someone's virginity or lack of shouldn't be anyone's business or be a reflection of their worth, and making it all the worse is the gendered double-standard; girls are expected to stay virgins until marriage (and marriage is seen as an inevitability by a certain point in time), but boys aren't expected to, and are often encouraged not to, and it's harmful to everyone.

@SCH0206 wrote:"I was suprised by the mans question actually.. This happens in all many countries, that people have sex with their pets!"

True. Sickos live all over the world.

"and she answered: There comes a certain age of 12, 13, 14, and if they hadn't had a sexual experience, they hadn't had sex, then they're not a man. I mean, they just can't go around saying that they are virgin ""

Why is someone's virginity (or lack of) anyone's business in the first place? It's funny how some pro-sexual people say sex is a private matter, then want to make it their business. They need more to do.

How ridiculous, and hypocritical of prosexual people to say that. I've wondered that too, but my guess is the idea of sex being tied to someone's sense of worth and social status.

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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by x Skull Child x on Sun Nov 22, 2015 5:10 pm

yea.. There is another sick thing, in Afghanistan, which is called "bacha bazi". I watched a documentary about it. The men there for some reason can't have sex with women, I don't remember why.. So they have sex with children boys...

The teenage boys take on women's clothing and dance belly dance for men. Poor children. It really hurts when people make documentaries about it and just let the pedophiles rape the children without doing anything about it. I will watch the documentary again because I need to know if they really let the filth pedophile rape the children without doing anything.
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Post by SCH0206 on Sun Nov 22, 2015 5:16 pm

☆x Pure Life x☆ wrote:yea.. There is another sick thing, in Afghanistan, which is called "bacha bazi". I watched a documentary about it. The men there for some reason can't have sex with women, I don't remember why.. So they have sex with children boys...

The teenage boys take on women's clothing and dance belly dance for men. Poor children. It really hurts when people make documentaries about it and just let the pedophiles rape the children without doing anything about it. I will watch the documentary again because I need to know if they really let the filth pedophile rape the children without doing anything.

Goodness! How sick!

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Post by x Skull Child x on Sun Nov 22, 2015 5:33 pm

I just saw that there is another documentary which I haven't seen yet, which is about same thing but in Pakistan.

Edit: I'm watching the video now. The boy in the video said "The first time I sold myself, I didn't have any money."

the man who asks him questions asked him: "How old were you at the time?"

He answered: Eight and a half. I was little."

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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by Admin on Sun Nov 22, 2015 5:57 pm

It's illegal there, but the laws are seldom enforced, and it is often covered up, especially when a high-ranking person does it. In that documentary, sadly it's possible the journalists didn't intervene. There have also been reports of US soldiers were also forced to not intervene, and there was a US Army captain who did when he overheard abuse, but he was expelled for it. Sad

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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by Admin on Sun Nov 22, 2015 6:32 pm

☆x Pure Life x☆ wrote:I just saw that there is another documentary which I haven't seen yet, which is about same thing but in Pakistan.

Edit: I'm watching the video now. The boy in the video said "The first time I sold myself, I didn't have any money."

the man who asks him questions asked him: "How old were you at the time?"

He answered: Eight and a half. I was little."

Sad

It's so tragic. Sad It's also tragic how many have suffered, and that the cycle is expected to continue. Many who were abused become abusers themselves, perpetuating the same kind of abuse, and it is critical that the cycle can be broken. How can someone who has been through so much trauma, be willing to inflict the same kind on another? I read an article about it mentioning that. After losing power or control, people want to take it from another, but that only continues the cycle for yet another generation. Part of the reason this practice saw such a large re-emergence in the past decade or so is because of war, and so many boys being orphaned that they had to turn to this for their survival.

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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by SCH0206 on Sun Nov 22, 2015 6:43 pm

@Admin wrote:
☆x Pure Life x☆ wrote:I just saw that there is another documentary which I haven't seen yet, which is about same thing but in Pakistan.

Edit: I'm watching the video now. The boy in the video said "The first time I sold myself, I didn't have any money."

the man who asks him questions asked him: "How old were you at the time?"

He answered: Eight and a half. I was little."

Sad

It's so tragic. Sad It's also tragic how many have suffered, and that the cycle is expected to continue. Many who were abused become abusers themselves, perpetuating the same kind of abuse, and it is critical that the cycle can be broken. How can someone who has been through so much trauma, be willing to inflict the same kind on another? I read an article about it mentioning that. After losing power or control, people want to take it from another, but that only continues the cycle for yet another generation. Part of the reason this practice saw such a large re-emergence in the past decade or so is because of war, and so many boys being orphaned that they had to turn to this for their survival.
I don't understand that either. I find it very cowardly to continue a sick cycle instead of healing in healthy ways.  As an abuse victim in some areas of my life, I know seeking out scapegoats wouldn't do me nor the potential target any good. Why can't abusive former victims get this message into their brains?

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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by x Skull Child x on Sun Nov 22, 2015 10:15 pm

It sometimes happens that people who have been sexually abused as children commit the same crimes as their perpetrators when they get older...

It's also not uncommon that children/teenagers who have been kidnapped and forced into prostitution, choose to stay in prostitution when they grow up and become free. Unfortunatelly they continue with prostitution even though they are no longer in captivity..
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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by Admin on Sat Dec 05, 2015 3:59 pm

☆x Pure Life x☆ wrote:I just read this article

http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/04/asexual-aromantic-happy/

Great article! It's so frustrating that people assume someone can't be happy without sex, romance, or wanting children. That article does a great job describing the double-bind asexuals are trapped in:

1. Others assuming their asexuality must have a "cause", or only consider their asexuality valid after a lot of identity policing and going through extensive tests and questioning that are intended to disprove it.
2. Others invalidating asexuals that do have a history of abuse, takes medication, or anything else that can be used by others to say those things discredit their asexuality, under the guise of "you're not really asexual, you're just ______" . This issue is known as the "unassailable asexual" concept, and asexuals who are repulsed by sex, or are sex-negative also get their asexuality invalidated because of this concept (under the assumption of "You're not really asexual, you just have hang-ups about sex/are prudish/repressed"). It's an unwinnable situation that can happen to any asexual person; I've seen some who didn't have any traits that others might use to try to discredit their asexuality, but still get invalidated.

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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by x Skull Child x on Sun Dec 06, 2015 7:47 pm

I just read about Emma Morano, if you haven't google it :o

She left her violent husband in 1938. Since then she has lived a single life and is still single at the age of 116 year old.. :P


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Post by Admin on Sun Dec 06, 2015 8:58 pm

Wow! I didn't know of her until just now so I read up about her too. The stories of people who live that long are always interesting. They've all lived through so much and have different things they credit for their lifespan, but it's great to see someone who is happy to be single that long and credit it to their long life!

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Post by x Skull Child x on Mon Dec 07, 2015 9:19 am

Indeed, it's amazing! :)
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Post by x Skull Child x on Wed Dec 09, 2015 3:42 pm

I watched this video..
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Post by Admin on Sat Dec 12, 2015 7:57 pm

That video made a lot of good points, and mentioned one of the things I hate about conventional relationships; being treated like another person's possession, not being allowed to talk with others, out of the assumption it will lead to cheating.

Controlling people who don't want their partners to talk to people or go anywhere alone with others, are the ones hypersexualizing innocuous interactions by reading a lot of sexual intent and malicious intent behind their partners talking to other people, when that intent isn't there. Why is being friendly with another person assumed to be flirting?

It's weird that not being sexually attracted to someone is assumed to mean disliking them, and sexual attraction is assumed to be love, so much that some people who are only lusting after their partners without liking them as people think they're in love.

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Post by Guest on Sun Dec 13, 2015 8:55 am

There's a face on her make-up.

@Admin wrote:Why is being friendly with another person assumed to be flirting?

For the same reason everything looks like food to a starving person.

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Post by x Skull Child x on Sun Dec 27, 2015 5:09 am

Antisex.info is back..

But it's not active.. I found the forum when I googled "antisexuality".
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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by SCH0206 on Sun Dec 27, 2015 9:36 am

Even though the forum's not active anymore, it's good to know that the website returned.

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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by Biscotti on Sun Dec 27, 2015 6:38 pm

http://www.internetacid.com/man-claims-sex-is-for-stupid-people/
This guy is...a funny guy.
Edit: Aaannd it might be satire (Wouldn't be surprising)
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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by x Skull Child x on Sat Jan 02, 2016 3:09 pm

I didn't find the lyrics to this song, so I don't know what the song is about.. Those of you who understand english better than me might understand..? It can't be anti sex, or? In such cases, a very rare song.. The name of the band is Hatesex..

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Post by Admin on Sat Jan 02, 2016 5:20 pm

I'm not sure. I couldn't find a page listing the lyrics, so I had to listen to the lyrics carefully. From what I've heard, it sounds like the phenomenon of "hate sex", when a couple who are fighting and hate each other have sex with each other because they feel lust and hate towards each other. Those kind of relationships are dysfunctional, and described as being a cycle; "the cycle resumes".

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Re: Everything about everything and nothing

Post by x Skull Child x on Mon Jan 11, 2016 9:08 am

Women who refuse

"We're collecting stories of violence inflicted on women who reject sexual advances."

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It's not my blog..

I've chatted with such types of guys. Those are nice at first and then when you do not want to have contact with them, they become aggressive. They say things like "you're probably fat and ugly". Some guys are like that..

There are cases where women beat or rape their husbands if they refuse sex but usually it's the women who end up in trouble if they do not respond positively to flirt or sexual contact..
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